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7 January 2022, 14:57
ABBA were unique for so many reasons. Not only for their one-of-a-kind infectious pop classics, but also for how they functioned as a band made out of two couples.
But after just under 10 years of world-dominating hits, ABBA called it a day in 1983, a couple of years after both couples had split.
ABBA tried to make it work despite the divorces within the band, but it was doomed to fail with such high stakes, particularly as Bjorn and Agnetha also all had children.
But when were couples married and when did they split?
Agnetha met Björn, then a member of the Hootenanny Singers, in 1968.
The couple married on July 6, 1971, in the village of Verum, with Benny playing the organ at their wedding. A year later, ABBA was formed.
Agnetha and Bjorn had two children together. Their first child Linda was born in 1973, while son Peter was born in 1977.
After around seven years as a successful band, the stresses of touring led to the couple splitting in 1979, and she later said that she needed therapy after the break-up.
It was reported in 2008 that Agnetha was emotionally "mangled" following the split from Bjorn. Plus, Bjorn was said to have had a new girlfriend within a week, leaving Agnetha in need of counselling.
It was also around this time that ABBA's iconic break-up song 'The Winner Takes It All' was released, with Agnetha singing the moving lyrics: "Tell me does she kiss like I used to kiss you?"
Speaking about the song in 2013, Agnetha said: "Björn wrote it about us after the breakdown of our marriage. The fact he wrote it exactly when we divorced is touching really.
"I didn't mind. It was fantastic to do that song because I could put in such feeling. I didn't mind sharing it with the public. It didn't feel wrong. There is so much in that song.
"It was a mixture of what I felt and what Björn felt but also what Benny and Frida went through."
She wrote in her 1997 book As I Am: “We always told the media that it was a ‘happy’ divorce, which of course was a front. Obviously we all know there are no such things as happy divorces, especially when there are children involved.”
After meeting in 1969, the couple were living together by 1971. They did not marry until October 6 1978, during the height of ABBA's fame.
However, after just two years of marriage, they separated in 1980, and were divorced in 1981.
According to an 1981 Expressen article, Benny said at the time: "I don't know how other people deal with things like this.
"Frida and I are still friends and I'm still a member of ABBA. We are still good friends, but we are not married anymore."
Their divorce reportedly came quickly, after Benny told Frida that he had met someone else. That person was TV producer Mona Norklit, whom he married later in 1981.
He continued: "We discussed what was going to remain in the group in spite of all we have been through. We decided to stay together for the sake of the music."
Frida added: "Now that Benny and I have broken up, we are able to work much better together. Our relationship is not as intense as it was, but we are still in contact.
"We have chosen to be completely honest with each other. We have always been very honest about relationships and after long and hard talks we decided to go our separate ways.
"We simply grew out of each other. It came down to our different goals in life. We have always been honest and talked about everything. We talked and talked and finally, we agreed that a divorce would be the best solution.
"There was a lot of tears and a lot of discussions. But there was no way back. Breaking up became a necessity."
It was later said that the band tried returning to the studio in 1982, but realised after both divorces that it was no longer the same.
It wouldn't be until the 2000s that the group were seen in public together at the launch of the Mamma Mia musical and subsequent film.
However, by 2018, all four members began talking seriously about a comeback and recorded a couple of new songs together for the first time in over 35 years.
These two songs eventually turned into a full album, and they released Voyage in 2021. They will also stage a reunion concert of sorts, with specially-crafted virtual 'ABBAtars' performing to fans in London.
Speaking about the band’s comeback, Bjorn told Zane Lowe that things had felt natural when they got into a recording studio again.
He said: “I looked around and I looked into Agnetha’s eyes and Frida’s eyes and there was the same kind of feeling, the warmth, and the friendship and the bonds, between us that, as you suddenly realise no one on earth has experienced this kind of relationship that we have because, thinking about it, it’s true, nobody else has.
“Sadly, people die and they don’t stay on friendly terms for their whole lives, but we have. And I’m so incredibly happy for that.”