Forgotten loves of George Michael, Freddie Mercury and Elton John: The secret women they loved

21 February 2020, 16:42 | Updated: 25 February 2020, 12:37

Freddie Mercury, George Michael and Elton John were all in love with women in the past
Freddie Mercury, George Michael and Elton John were all in love with women in their lives. Picture: Getty

George Michael's ex-girlfriend, Elton John's ex-wife and Freddie Mercury's ex-fiancée were all important women in their lives and while much is known about their high profile gay relationships, less is known about the women the stars' loved.

From Freddie Mercury leaving the majority of his estate to his best friend and first love, Mary Austin, to George Michael's long term relationship with "gorgeous looking" Kathy Jeung, we explore the love stories that shaped the singers' future relationships.

Freddie Mercury's ex-fiancé Mary Austin

It was clear to both Freddie Mercury's friends and fans alike that Mary Austin was the most important woman in his life.

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Freddie and Mary were so close, that at one stage Freddie asked her to marry him, and he also left her half of his £75million estate, including his £25 million Georgian mansion in Kensington.

Freddie Mercury was 24-years-old when he met and fell in love with a 19-year-old Mary Austin
Freddie Mercury was 24-years-old when he met and fell in love with a 19-year-old Mary Austin. Picture: Getty

Although they split up as romantic partners, they remained very close friends.

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Mary still lives in the West London mansion that Freddie left her, Garden Lodge, the same home where Freddie died from an AIDS-related illness in 1991 and it was only last year that she finally took down tributes to the late singer left by fans on the perimeter of the property.

Freddie first met Mary in 1969 when he was 24, five years after moving to England.

Mary was 19-years-old and working in a West London fashion boutique - love quickly blossomed.

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They soon shared a small flat near Kensington Market, where Freddie had a clothes stall with Queen drummer Roger Taylor.

While there had been rumours about Freddie's sexuality, the presence of Mary - and his genuine love for her - meant his sexuality was not seriously questioned for some time.

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He dedicated the song 'Love Of My Life' to her, and proposed in 1973.

Freddie Mercury and Mary Austin at the Ivor Novello Awards on April 15, 1987
Freddie Mercury and Mary Austin at the Ivor Novello Awards on April 15, 1987. Picture: Getty

Speaking of the engagement, Mary later said: “I was speechless. I remember thinking, ‘I don’t understand what’s going on’. It wasn’t what I’d expected at all.”

However, Freddie could not ignore his attraction to men and started having affairs.

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He is said to have told her that he was bisexual in 1976. Mary later said: “I’ll never forget that moment. I remember saying to him, ‘No Freddie, I don’t think you are bisexual. I think you are gay’.”

They soon broke up and she soon moved into a nearby flat, and Freddie started hosting wild parties. However, Mary remained close, and even worked for his management company.

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Mary was Freddie's bedside holding his hand when he passed away at the age of 45 on November 24, 1991.

She later carried out his wish to secretly scatter his ashes. While there have been various rumours about where she took the ashes, such as Kensal Green Cemetery or the cherry tree in his garden, she has never revealed the whereabouts.

Freddie Mercury dedicated the song 'Love Of My Life' to Mary Austin, and proposed to her in 1973
Freddie Mercury dedicated the song 'Love Of My Life' to Mary Austin, and proposed to her in 1973. Picture: Getty

George Michael's ex-girlfriend Kathy Jeung

George Michael met Kathy Jeung - who starred as his love interest in the 1987 video for 'I Want Your Sex' - when he was 24-years-old and they were in a relationship in the '80s for three years.

George regularly spoke about his great love and respect for Kathy during their time together - which took place ten years before the star came out in a live television interview.

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"She’s [Kathy's] gorgeous looking but it’s really not very important because it’s always there, always available," he told Women's Own in 1987.

"In this job there’s no end of beautiful women if you want them, but in the end you learn that sex is just sex and it can never be anything more. Making love is very different," he said.

George Michael and Kathy pictured in London in 1988
George Michael and Kathy pictured in London in 1988. Picture: Getty

"My relationship with Kathy has changed me a lot. I’ve developed. I’ve become more directed and positive. l can concentrate more on my career and the things that are important to me without having the distraction of looking for something."

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In his interview on CNN in 1998, George made a point of stressing that he had never lied in his music about his sexuality and that it wasn't until he was 27-years-old - three years after his relationship with Kathy ended - that he had first explored being in a gay relationship.

Despite Elton John's recent claims that the 'Faith' singer was "uncomfortable" with his sexuality, George Michael was clear in interviews that he had been in love with both men and women and there was "no bullsh**" with his fans.

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"I do want people to know the songs I wrote when I was with women were really about women and the songs that I've written since have been fairly obviously about men," he told CNN.

"My relationship with Kathy has changed me a lot," said George in an interview in 1988
"My relationship with Kathy has changed me a lot," said George in an interview in 1988. Picture: Getty

Kathy wrote about her love for George after his death on December 25, 2016 through a statement on her Instagram page.

"Like my childhood with my dad and family, I spent some of the best times of my life with George," she said.

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"I can barely encompass in words what George means to me, I treasured our #specialfriendship - to just scratch the surface with no exaggeration, he was the most generous, hilarious, brilliant, talented, #truefriend," she said.

"For now I’ll just say #iloveyouyog #iloveyougeorge #alwaysinmyheart #bestfriend #ripgeaorge #yog #loveyoualways #heartbroken #lastchristmas - All my love to George’s family, dad, sisters Melanie and Yioda, his friends, especially #DavidAustin #AndrewRidegely @shirliekemp @kenny_goss - George can now be with his beautiful mom in #heaven."

Elton John's ex-wife Renate Blauel

While Elton John has been with partner David Furnish for more than 25 years, the singer married a female sound engineer on Valentine's day in 1984.

Renate Blauel, who Elton met in 1983 when he was recording his Too Low for Zero album, soon joined the singer on his 1984 tour to Australia.

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On February 10 1983, while having dinner at an Indian restaurant, Elton proposed. Renate accepted and the engagement was announced the following day, with the wedding taking place just three days later.

Elton John and Renate Blauel 's Wedding in Sydney on February 14, 1984
Elton John and Renate Blauel 's Wedding in Sydney on February 14, 1984. Picture: Getty

The ceremony was held on Valentine’s Day, when Elton was 36 and Renate was 28. Both wore white, with Elton's suit reportedly costing £1,000.

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One of the most surprised about the quick wedding was Elton's pal Rod Stewart, who apparently referenced a recent Elton hit, writing: “You may still be standing, but we’re all on the f***ing floor.”

Before this, Elton had publicly said he was bisexual in 1976, and many of his close friends were said to have been convinced he was gay.

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“A drug addict thinks like this: ‘I’ve had enough boyfriends, and that’s not made me happy, so I’ll have a wife — that will change everything.’ And I loved Renate. She’s a great girl. I really, really loved her. But, you know… it is one of the things I regret most in my life, hurting her.”

Elton John and wife Renate pictured in 1986
Elton John and wife Renate pictured in 1986. Picture: Getty

His close friend and lyricist Bernie Taupin later said that he saw the wedding as Elton simply wanting to have a family. Elton's mother Sheila announced she would give the newlyweds a baby stroller as a wedding gift, according to Elton's former publicist, Caroline Boucher.

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Four years later in November 1988, they couple divorced and went their separate ways.

Renate virtually disappeared from the public eye, and has never spoken publicly of the marriage since.

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When the split was announced, Renate claimed that she and Elton were parting amicably, “and genuinely intend to remain best of friends.”

Elton had also been struggling with drug and alcohol addictions since before the wedding, and later compared his decision to get married to his situation in a 2008 interview with The Australian.

Linda Hannon was engaged to Elton John - then known as Reginald White - in 1970
Linda Hannon was engaged to Elton John - then known as Reginald White - in 1970. Picture: Getty

However it would later transpire that Renate wasn't Elton John's first brush with marriage.

Last year the singer's supposed ex-fiancée Linda Hannon opened up about her rocky relationship with the 'Rocketman' star and how he 'drunkenly' dumped her weeks before their wedding in 1970.

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Linda, who still has her engagement ring said: “John Baldry and Bernie [Taupin] took Reg out for drinks at the Bag O’ Nails club in Soho and got him roaring drunk.

“They told him to call off the wedding, insisting he was going to ruin two lives, his own and mine.”

Five years after their split Elton released the song 'Someone Saved My Life Tonight', said to be about his relationship with Linda.